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Jail for Sex? Couple 'In So Much Trouble'

July 10, 2008 6:48 PM

Dubai_beach_080710_main_2 ABC News' Lara Setrakian reports: A British couple was arrested for a romantic romp on Dubai’s Jumeirah Beach. The two allegedly were caught having sex on the beach -- an act very much against the law in this modern, but still traditional Muslim society.

The case is front page news in the Gulf, where reactions range from sympathy to “they should have known better” indifference.

The woman, identified in the press as Michelle Palmer, 30, spoke to reporters about facing a possible 3-6 years in jail. 

“They are going to make an example of us and we’re going to get a higher sentence,” Palmer told reporters. “We are in so much trouble. ... Until someone is in this situation, they could never know what it’s like. It's bad — it’s so, so bad. They are being pushed into a corner to make an example of us. I’m panicking. I can’t say anything else.”

Dubai invites tourists from around the world to take in its Persian Gulf shores and fast-expanding skyline.

But there's a high price to not knowing the laws that keep Western visitors in line with conservative Middle Eastern values. During the month of Ramadan, for example, it is criminal to eat, drink or chew gum in public during daylight hours (Muslims fast until sunset).

Any sexual activity outside of marriage is technically illegal in Dubai, and public displays of affection are frowned upon.

Travel advice from the British Foreign Office states that there have been arrests of people kissing in public.

For the estimated 25,000 Americans living in the UAE and the many more who visit, the message is hands off your partner or you could be doing hard time.

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How embarrassing. I'm so happy I never got caught!!

Posted by: Sexonthebeach | Jul 10, 2008 8:15:40 PM

Prison sex is more kinky anyway

Posted by: Dude Awesome | Jul 10, 2008 8:17:11 PM

I don't know why anyone would ever want to visit Dubai.

You can't hold hands, kiss or even put your arms around your wife as you walk down the beach. I'd surely get arrested and so would every single one of you.

Regardless of what the outcome of their sentencing, this should be a warning to every single westerner, do not travel to Dubai. If you had any idea what they thought of you for merely kissing your wife in public, you would never want to be in their country and only a fool would sanction a loved one to travel there.

Think about it - it is they who should be respecting our culture or else forbid us from visiting because kissing, holding hands and hugging is too strongly ingrained into western culture - we cannot control it.

Americans will hug you - the French will kiss both of your cheeks and couples will always try to get away with a lot more if they think no one is looking - deal with it. It's called romance and every soul needs this no matter where you're from.

If they cannot deal with this, then they should never allow westerners into their country - problem solved.

Posted by: doug | Jul 10, 2008 8:20:06 PM

I guess they figure they're from another country, it's ok to have sex on the beach. And of all countries they pick Muslim Dubai to do this. Very stupid of them.

Posted by: use some smarts | Jul 10, 2008 8:23:07 PM

Who in their right mind would commit a s-e-x act in public in a Muslim country! Folks, you have to respect a people's sensitivities. BTW don’t they cut off offending body parts in some of these countries . . . . yikes!

Posted by: quickphil1943 | Jul 10, 2008 8:23:12 PM

So what? The couple would probably face more jail time for doing the same thing in most American cities, especially those in the South. And if they were having sex on an American beach where children could see, the couple could get LIFE in prison in some US states. This has nothing to do with Islam. This has to do with stupid and overbearing laws that exist all around the world, including the USA.

Posted by: Eric | Jul 10, 2008 8:28:49 PM

Eric,

I doubt they were having sex on the beach during the day on a busy beach where children could see them! A little common sense, eh?

Posted by: Sexonthebeach | Jul 10, 2008 8:34:00 PM

I'm confused. Were they holding hands or having sex? If they were having sex on a public beach in any country I would hope they'd be arrested. Hey, in this country tapping your toes in a bathroom can get you in trouble.

Posted by: Sara B. | Jul 10, 2008 8:40:16 PM

The Dubai/Western thing isn't going to work out.

Billionaire says: "Money is no object. I can go anywhere in the world...hmmmmm...I think I'll go where the people and the government hate my guts."

How about next time you come to Kansas for a holiday instead. It's a lot cheaper than Dubai and we can arrest you for almost as many reasons and our sentencing guidelines reasonably harsh - we're no Dubai, but give us a chance - I know we can make you feel at least half as oppressed. Come to Kansas instead!

What's that you say? Traveling to Kansas sounds lame? Exactly my point. So why would you want to go to Dubai?

Posted by: doug | Jul 10, 2008 8:43:26 PM

So what is it? Is this country modern or traditional?

Posted by: foxisms | Jul 10, 2008 8:48:23 PM

Whats with these people who feel the need to have sex in public?? Horny? Pull over on the side of the road..do it on a picnic table at a rest stop.Start thinking with that on your shoulders and not the one between your legs.

Posted by: orange cat | Jul 10, 2008 8:50:38 PM

..those people are ignorant (the tourists, that is)...guess what, go cry to the British Consulate and thank God you'll only do a few weeks or months in a sh*thole jail...

Posted by: Jazz | Jul 10, 2008 8:53:51 PM

Come on, we wouldn't allow an arabic man, who was living in the US for 3 years, to lash his wife with a whip for being seen in public with another man, would we? We expect him to respect US laws and customs, and to be thrown in jail if he didn't do so.

Same applies the other way. It doesn't take much effort to adhere to a local law, and if you don't like it or don't have the mental capacity to understand such a concept, I recommend not to go there. Plain and simple.

Posted by: Baltar | Jul 10, 2008 8:54:37 PM

foxisms... that's a good question. Dubai is trying to mix modern western life with a primitive religion based on rules and philosophies from a thousand years (or more) ago.

The only reason it APPEARS to be working is because with enough money you can make ANYTHING look possible.

But as many have said on this forum, if you visit another country, expect to live by THEIR rules.

I would avoid a country governed by Islamic Law, even if they try to conceal it in a facade of ostentatious buildings, amusement parks, or whatever.

But if I DID have to visit such a country, I would make SURE I obey their laws.

Posted by: Rhys | Jul 10, 2008 8:56:48 PM

Wonder if they were doing it during the daytime, hope they chop off his weeney, you know if you steal in any middle east country they chop off your hand and let you go, wonder what they would do in this instance, hmmmmmmmm................But then again what would they do to her????

Posted by: blogger79 | Jul 10, 2008 8:57:19 PM

I say if they want our tourism and want our oil money payments they better be more flexible. What's wrong with probation? Good grief.

Posted by: WestCoastMessenger | Jul 10, 2008 8:57:47 PM

SaraB said, "Hey, in this country tapping your toes in a bathroom can get you in trouble." What a funny, and completely relevant point you make!

Posted by: Eric | Jul 10, 2008 8:57:49 PM

I fully support a nationwide holiday called "Sh*t on a quran day"

Posted by: MJ | Jul 10, 2008 8:57:58 PM

blogger79 wonders "what they would do to her".

If they are not married, it is adultery, and she could be stoned to death. Otherwise, a simple public whipping might be in order.

If they are really lucky, they will be booted out of Dubai and warned to never return.

Posted by: Rhys | Jul 10, 2008 9:03:57 PM

Furthermore half the people in this country claim to be christian conservative, I don't think christian conservatism EVER supported public sex.

Why is everyone now supporting it?

Posted by: Baltar | Jul 10, 2008 9:04:06 PM

I fully agree with the "sh*t on a quran day." There is no pagan moon god but allah, and muhammed (p*ss be upon him) is his illiterate child molesting thief murderer rapist prophet.

Posted by: Jason C from KC | Jul 10, 2008 9:05:50 PM

Screw the bastards in Dubai. They can decorate it up to look like the French Riviera, but it is still a cruddy Muslim stinkhole and always will be. No wonder people go to Florida.

Posted by: ksjeff | Jul 10, 2008 9:19:52 PM

Evidently there are some tiny, little monkey brains at work in here.

Posted by: foxisms | Jul 10, 2008 9:22:04 PM

They knew the law , its all part of the thrill , doing the forbidden .

now they just have to pay the price.

SERVE THEM RIGHT!! they are so many wonderfull beaches in the caribbean, and you are encourage to get freaky.

But that would be boring i guess.

Posted by: ha-ha | Jul 10, 2008 9:24:15 PM

If they go through with the sentence, Dubai can suck it. I will never go there or any other country that has draconian laws. 6 yrs, is draconian.

Ireland anyone?

Posted by: effjay | Jul 10, 2008 9:28:00 PM

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