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Obama to Reporter: Sorry I Called You "Sweetie"
May 15, 2008 11:16 AM
FROM GUEST-BLOGGER RICK KLEIN, OF ABC'S THE NOTE
Really? He calls people "sweetie"? And this is a "habit"?
A little flare-up out of Sen. Barack Obama's Michigan visit: A (female) reporter for ABC's Detroit affiliate, WXYZ-TV, shouted a question in Obama's direction yesterday, inquiring about Obama's plans to help American autoworkers. Obama didn't feel like answering at the time -- not unusual, since Obama likes to answer questions at structured "avails," or media availabilities, if fielding questions at all, while on the trail.
Obama's response: "Hold on one second, sweetie, we're going to do -- we'll do a press avail."
First, the easy stuff: Obama never did do that "avail," and never did answer reporter Peggy Agar's question, which (if it matters) was substantive and relevant to Obama's visit that day.
Then, the harder stuff: Obama actually called a reporter "sweetie."
I don't know about you, but I don't believe I've ever used that term. My mother calls me "sweetie" from time to time. She's my mom. It's not a slur, but in a professional setting? I'm fairly certain that Obama would flunk basic corporate training if he used a term like that to refer to a female colleague.
Obama (or one of his aides) realized the mistake, and the candidate himself called Agar and left a voicemail that started by apologizing for not answering her question.
"I broke my word, I apologize for that, and I will make up for it," Obama said.
Then the meat: "Second apology is for using the word 'sweetie.' That's a bad habit of mine. I do it sometimes with all kinds of people. I mean no disrespect and so I am duly chastened on that front. Feel free to call me back. I expect that my press team will be happy to try to make it up to you whenever we are in Detroit next."
This would seem like the kind of "bad habit" Obama may want to break at some point, like smoking.
The New York Times' Jim Rutenberg points out that Obama has used the word "sweetie" at least once before on the trail, referring to a female factory worker in Allentown, Pa., last month.
While we're breaking the bad habits, how about media access? Sen. John McCain just gave a speech where he promised to give weekly press conferences as president -- and he gives just-about daily (and sometimes far more than that) casual and formal access to the press as a candidate. Anyone think the different styles WON'T catch up with Obama at some point in the general election? Even after this, the most he can say is that he expects his press team to "try to make it up to you" next time he's in town?
Listen to the voicemail, and see the exchange with the reporter, HERE (click on the video player to the right).
Don't miss Agar's response, toward the end of her TV spot: "This 'sweetie' never did get an answer to that question."
-- Rick Klein
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Oh please. Sweetie? Give me a break. One of the top 10 American terms of endearment and she was never called that? Chill out. What is next for her? Prozac? Zoloft? Or perhaps Paxil?
Posted by: DAWGMAN | May 21, 2008 4:06:12 PM
As a woman I felt offended. I do not think he would have called a male reporter sweetie. When making the phone call to say he was sorry I wished he had answered the reporter's question on the phone. He still has time to write out a response to the question and mail or email her. Do we really know who Obama is? Does he know himself?
Posted by: jeanette | May 18, 2008 12:05:12 PM
It is so condescending.....he is such an idiot....and no respect for women....at work you can call it sexual harassment........and he never answers any thoughtful questions
Posted by: Mary B | May 18, 2008 9:17:45 AM
ARE U KIDDING ME?????????
THEY ARE SAYING ANYTHING TO BRING THIS BLACK MAN DOWN! THIS IS REDICULIOUS.
PEOPLE ARE CRAZY.
MEN AND WOMEN GET CALLED "SWEETIE"ALL THE TIME IT MEANS NOTTHING. OMG!!!
Posted by: Janae | May 18, 2008 12:22:30 AM
Give me a break! This is newsworthy?
What a waste of time. This just shows how low Obama's critics have to search to find some fault with Obama.
Posted by: Dennis | May 17, 2008 10:31:11 PM
He didn't answer the question he dismissed it and attempted to dismiss her. The question was valid and focused on those lower payed factory workers, a base he needs to step up too. Instead he swanked around looking at cars.
He called her for two reasons:
1) he doesn't want to look elitist.
2) he didn't want it to turn into a media storm where he is being called sexist (especially not with those feminists chanting for clinton).
Its the same(ish) as the rev. wright issue. He denounced him when he said things about HIM that could be misconstrued.
He is playing the politics game for sure.
Also like the way he tried to entice the reporter "my press team will make it up to you" bottom line for me the trip was a show which reflected how hollow his campaign really is. He wasn't there for the workers.
Posted by: firefox | May 17, 2008 1:34:06 PM
He was wrong. There is no way to defend this as right. Fortunately he did not try to defend it. He appropriately apologized. The thing I like about Obama is that he admits when he's wrong. And everyone will be wrong sometimes. The other thing I like is his way of seeing the better intentions in others and giving the benefit of the doubt. For example when Mrs. Clinton recently in syntax equated "white people" to "hard working people" his campaign response was "She didn't mean it that way." They could have jumped all over that. You could say, by a stretch, that his approach assumes moral superiority. It implies "I'm not going to sink to that level." In that sense you could say it's elitist or sexist. But to me, by admitting and apologizing when you are wrong, by giving the benefit of the doubt, and assuming good intentions from others--to me that is fair and refreshing. I think anyone can respect that. In fact, it is these qualities--and the possibility that we the people can take back the white house--this has made me interested in our presidential election for the first time. I think the journalist was right to bring this up and bring this into our conscioiusness. I also think that it is right to accept the apology. We needn't be relentlessly unforgiving. We can gain from this by looking at it squarely, acknowledging it, and moving forward with higher awareness.
Posted by: Sam | May 17, 2008 12:47:24 PM
I would rather be called sweetie than you guys, which is a masculine reference that many people seem to think is unisex in our "modern" age. at least sweetie is a feminine reference.
Posted by: Sara | May 16, 2008 6:43:32 PM
I hate being called sweetie or honey or any other stupid name from morons!
I am not your sweetie, I am not your honey.
Someone send Obama back to his hole!
Posted by: Jules | May 16, 2008 4:34:29 PM
That's what happens when you have a person running for Prez who is half black and half white, he's bound to say or do something that the other side is not going to enjoy hearing or see him doing.
Posted by: sweetiePie | May 16, 2008 3:42:12 PM
MEN/WOMEN GETTING OFFENDED BY GETTING CALLED SWEETIE NEED TO GROW UP.
Posted by: GENNIE | May 16, 2008 3:09:13 PM
Obama can call me "Sweetie" any time he likes. (Hope rings eternal...)
Posted by: Feminist Granny & Reitired Reporter | May 16, 2008 2:06:20 PM
"Hold on a second, sweetie. We'll hold a press avail,"
"Sweetie, if I start with a picture I will never get out of here."
"Sweetie if I start doing autographs I just won't be & I am really late."
Spontaneous, habitual, or not, this is sexist by what we have all been taught. Why should Obama get a pass? I think not. Pay the piper Barack.
Posted by: scottwww | May 16, 2008 2:02:47 PM
I work for the NYPD and personally I call people sweety and darling all the time. I've lived in the community that I now work in for 29 years and everyone there knows me and my rep. That is just how I greet the people to whom I know. This saying is not disrespectful at all. As you can clearly see that this is how he talks all the time. STOP STRESSING PEOPLE!!! THINK ABOUT THE HIGH GAS PRICES!!!!!
Posted by: Debby | May 16, 2008 1:03:48 PM
Oh My God!! what bull is this? why cant the media focus on the issues but start up something that is innocent and simple? Apparently, media like CNN, FOX, ABC who claim that they are not bias,and dont take sides, etc actually stir up issues that are both irrelevant and unimportant to me and the millions of people whose lives are been impacted by the current political and economic nightmare. Please American media focus on issues that is of concern to the well-being of our citizens...not comments that are made or gestures that makes no sense or important to the current political or economic environment we are facing right now. If thats all you have to report about Obama referring to someone as "sweetie" apparently, the focus is totally not to shed light on the innocence of such remarks but a way looking for faults about Obama..This media has tried to associate him with comments made by some pastor 7 years ago,7 years ago.Do you how many people who made remarks like these over the years?, and suddenly he is not patriotic enough to be the president. How do you judge who is more patriotic? By having the US flag in front of your house, and wearing a pin on your chest? Does that make you more patriotic than anyone else? He is an American. An American. Deal with that. He is qualified to be the President of this nation according the constituition..Deal with it.He will be the next President..
Posted by: chris george | May 16, 2008 1:01:56 PM
Obama did use the word in a way that implied some loose moral or close, weird connection with the reporter but something like a slip of the tongue. People opposed to him may use this to create a useless, baseless scandal that never is. especially with the way Clinton campaign is dwindling this may be a "good" riddance for her campaign and supporters.
Great leaders are those who dont deny who they are and their mistakes. Obama should be understood.
Posted by: Ken Kirui | May 16, 2008 1:01:35 PM
If “sweety” bothers you, you should never come to North Carolina. By the standards of this article, I’m owed an apology by 15 percent of all waitresses that have ever waited on me here.
Posted by: Some Guy | May 16, 2008 12:45:53 PM
Quote: 'This begs a question....Why hasn't the mainstream press bothered to investigate Obama's roots in Chicago politics and some of the very angry exchanges he's had with the press there?"
This begs a question. Why hasn't the "mainstream press" published the fact that the Clintons are on trial for fraud in Los Angeles Superior Court?
That's case number BC304174.
Posted by: willy | May 16, 2008 12:45:19 PM
Its a shame that people who do not want any good for America will take a mere sweetie call for a reason to blackmail the innocent man. IM sure most of the writers are clinton supporters bcoz this is now becoming a politically motivated topic. The lady in question was not offended by the name so why the fire????? we are in a civilize world for God sake. i personaaly call pple sweetie,honey and i get the same name frm pple too and i think its a way of life and a pleasant way of addresssing or showing love to all.
Plz lets not use this against Obama nor make this a politically motivated topic to bring the young man's image to black.
Posted by: Nathaniel Asan | May 16, 2008 12:41:31 PM
Quote: "Let someone, male or female, call you men "Sweetie" and see how you like it.
Posted by: doobrah |
Get over it, I am called "sweetie" every time I go into a restaurant by someone I never saw before in my life.
Worry about Senator Clinton losing more super delegates as we speak. Hmmm?
Posted by: willy | May 16, 2008 12:39:43 PM
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