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Elizabeth Edwards' 'Anguish' in Wake of Husband's Affair
August 13, 2008 3:13 PM
ABC News' Nitya Venkataraman Reports: Faced with the betrayal of her husband, former Democratic presidential candidate John Edwards, those close to Elizabeth Edwards say she experienced "excruciating anguish" in her decision to stand behind him through his 2008 campaign but that ultimately her terminal illness forced her to "move forward" for the sake of her family.
"No one should assume it was easy," says Hargrave McElroy, Elizabeth Edwards' best friend, in PEOPLE magazine's latest issue hitting newsstands Friday.
Once news of the affair went public, the PEOPLE magazine cover story says Elizabeth Edwards encouraged her husband to come clean.
On August 8, John Edwards taped an exclusive interview with Nightline admitting he'd repeatedly lied about an extramarital affair with Rielle Hunter, a film maker once employed by his presidential campaign, and denied involvement in paying her hush money or fathering her child. In the interview, Edwards described his wife as 'furious' upon learning of the affair.
PEOPLE reports Edwards' admission to his wife of the 2006 affair with Hunter as one that came in installments. "He told the truth slowly," said a source close to the couple who dated his confession as after the official launch of Edwards' 2008 presidential campaign in late December 2006. In March 2007, Mrs. Edwards told reporters she had learned her breast cancer had returned and was incurable.
"There was anguish -- excruciating anguish -- for her in dealing with this. She was angry and furious and everything, but at one point she had to make a choice: Do I kick him out or do we have a 30-year marriage that can be rebuilt?" McElroy said, in the PEOPLE magazine cover story that also featured an interview with Mrs. Edwards younger brother, Jay Anania.
Anania said living with incurable cancer and "the uncertainty of her own mortality" gave special circumstance to Mrs. Edwards decision to forgive her husband for the sake of her three children Cate, 26, Emma Claire, 10, and Jack, 8.
In the PEOPLE exclusive, McElroy says, "She couldn't say, 'Well, maybe we'll work through this for years, or maybe we should separate for two years. [The cancer] forced her to choose whether to move forward."
Hitting the campaign trail for her husband "was like returning to normalcy" McElroy said, though the challenge became more difficult than anticipated when tabloids began reporting the affair in 2007. McElroy says after that Mrs. Edwards did "strikingly less campaigning" than she did during the 2004 presidential election.
Her friends say Mrs. Edwards had hoped for some release following her husband's interview with Nightline. "Part of the burden for Elizabeth had been the lie," McElroy says in the PEOPLE magazine exclusive. "She anticipated the great relief the truth brings."
That release for Mrs. Edwards is yet to come. The blow to her husband's image has been significant. One Democratic strategist told PEOPLE "he's finished, it's too distasteful."
Friends tell PEOPLE magazine Edwards is working hard to regain his wife's trust, that they "are not living separate lives. They are together in that house, as before." They say his remorse "is real" and that "he is in pain." The magazine describes others in the Edwards' social circle as "outraged."
"The kids are, to a certain extent, oblivious," Elizabeth's brother tells PEOPLE magazine, "but children are very wise and know things." So far, the magazine says, the Edwardses haven't sat down with their younger children to discuss these events.
August 13, 2008 in Clinton, Hillary, Tancredo, Tom | Permalink | User Comments (96)
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John Edwards could of been the leader of the country. Now he is going to be a homeless unemployed bum
Posted by: ragler | Aug 13, 2008 3:37:39 PM
Hey Worse,
Obama was disrespectful to his own Grandma, and repudiated his pastor of twenty years. It all comes with the territory, a bunch of arrogant men. Isn't it time for a change?
Posted by: WestCoastMessenger | Aug 13, 2008 3:48:48 PM
John Edwards is going to live with what he did for the rest of his life. When his wife dies he will look back and see what he did to her and how much he hurt her. It is heartbreaking.
Posted by: JE | Aug 13, 2008 4:25:26 PM
Paul, people on both sides of the aisle care, that's who cares. He could have been the candidate! That was the intention for running, and his family headed out full-bore with this secret. Our society is not to the place where this is fully condoned, though we are forgetful (witness Bill Clinton). Democrats would have been sunk in the general election, even had he been VP. Republicans, ones who don't like to see the downfall of Dems just because of who they are, care because it's another one biting the dust who could have been an example of trustworthiness and charatyer in our gov't.
Posted by: Tracy Lynn | Aug 13, 2008 4:30:55 PM
We donated our hard-earned money for Edwards to spend on mistresses (under the cover of so called "political videos"). He should give the political donations back to his betrayed supporters (eventually donating extra to groups that support poor women battling cancer or husband infidelity).
Posted by: DD | Aug 13, 2008 4:36:24 PM
Actually, let's face it; John Edwards is a HOT BABE. I was surprised he hadn't had an affair. Of course, he is a good man and held out a long time. He lost his son, thought he would lose his wife, very vulnerable stage in his life. Then add the fact that he has obviously been quite wholesome and in walks the female player ready to go fishin'. Women all over must have been throwing themselves at him. Sorry we have the hottest guys in politics on our side, the downfall is megaloads of temptation coming their way. However, Al Gore was a real hottie in his day (still is to me) and he has managed to remain "decent." But then Al is a total type A. The media's role, is something to be suspicious about, but Edwards was weak, not evil. He still stood for the people who needed someone to stand up for them in our society; that makes him AWESOME to many of us including Elizabeth who continued to promote him as a servant of the PEOPLE, that says a lot.....
Posted by: irma | Aug 13, 2008 4:57:57 PM
It's funny how republicans don't seem to think there was anything wrong with McCain cheating. In fact they seem to be making excuses. Go figure.
Posted by: erin | Aug 13, 2008 5:08:59 PM
The McCain story is old news. It has been reported, disected and debated for 25 years. Edwards on the other hand lied thru his teeth all the while asking us to believe him and nominate him to be president. I hope this was worth it to him. Now the feds are supposedly interested in why his campaign finance chief feels the need to support this woman with his "own" money and whether or not it came from campaign donations. I think this story and his lies are going to be around for a while. Poor Elisabeth this is how she has to live out her last days.
Posted by: maryintampa | Aug 13, 2008 5:11:26 PM
Sherry, we don't often elect leaders battling cancer. Her prospects for survival don't look good. It's one thing to sympathize with her, but elect her as VP?
Posted by: Tracy Lynn | Aug 13, 2008 5:26:19 PM
This scandal needs to be put to rest. Whoever has any compassion for Elisabeth Edwards? Let it go! Can you imagine what it is doing to her. Why? Should Elisabeth keep on being crucified! For the media to have something to write about! How cheap!
Posted by: mary | Aug 13, 2008 5:26:37 PM
I just wanted to comment on the Obama attackers. McCain is a big time liar or flopper. He seems to change his stands on the issues depending on which conservative group denouces his tax plan, energy plan, etc.
As far as Edwards he should establish a Politicians Reform group with donations from Spitzer, Craig, Vitter and probably the white hair dude.
Posted by: O Yah | Aug 13, 2008 6:21:34 PM
John is not a loser, just a fallible human-being like us all. Please, if there is a perfect being gracing this blog, PLEASE let me know. I will vote for you.
Posted by: hewhoiswithoutsincast... | Aug 13, 2008 7:08:29 PM
McCain's story is old, very old news - Clinton's story is fairly old news. The Edwards story is new news - thanks to the Mainstream Media who buried it for a year. I thought Edwards was pro-abortion. Guess it didn't work this time!
Posted by: Sinners Lie | Aug 13, 2008 7:30:10 PM
To bad he continues to lie to her.
Posted by: Chris | Aug 13, 2008 7:44:13 PM
does anyone see a pattern here with MEN. They want total control of the world and take advantage of all women.
Posted by: a.orleans | Aug 13, 2008 7:56:07 PM
WELL THIS IS NOT SURPRISING AT ALL. THE ETHICS OF OUR GOVERNMENT OFFICALS, SPORTS PLAYERS AND CELEBRITIES ARE HORRIBLE. AND THEY WONDER WHY THE REST OF THE COUNTRY IS IN BAD SHAPE--DAH, THINK ABOUT IT YOU POLITIANS, PLAYERS AND ACTORS. WHAT HEROS YOU ARE NOT!!!!!!!!
Posted by: Dianne | Aug 13, 2008 8:01:49 PM
I think McCain's past is a consideration, just as Obama's past and his relationships are a consideration in determining who would be a better president. Everything should be taken as a whole. From what I know, McCain has been with his current wife for 30 years, so that speaks highly of him in the here and now. Democrats had better be careful about trying to bring up McCains' affair from 30 years ago, just look at Edwards (and what he said about narcissism and ego) and don't be surprised if something should come out about Obama.
Posted by: Susan | Aug 13, 2008 8:22:54 PM
My prayers adn thoughts are with Elizabeth and the children, may Elizabeth find the comfort, strength and love to move beyond this betrayal, and have many blue skies days ahead for her. She has enough on her plate with the illness and should not have to deal with the antics of her husband and Reille Hunter, Elizabeth Edwards has always been a very classy lady and her determination and resilence during this time has been as classy as she has ever been. Elizabeth you are an admired and stron woman, my prayers are definitely with you!
Posted by: AALFLYATT | Aug 13, 2008 8:48:40 PM
I hope Elizabeth knows that she and her children are in our prayers, and I hope somehow she will have the physical and emotional strength to show whatshisface the door.
He told her in "installments" -- exactly like he thinks he's going to be able to do with the public. The first installment is just the tip of a very polluted iceberg.
Posted by: Chris from Austin | Aug 13, 2008 9:08:30 PM
I agree that in public Elizabeth Edwards comes across as a classy lady. After learning of her husbands cheap affair, I can understand Elizabeth holding on to her marriage and family. Afterall, that is all she has when her life is getting short.
I don't agree that Elizabeth should have continued her support for her husband's campaign. She should have put a stop to the campaign and not allowed the lie to be continued on to the American people. People who gave money, time, and sacrificed careers for Edwards. Elizabeth also spoke badly about Hillary during the campaign while hiding her own deceit and her husband's lies. I wish Elizabeth well and a happy time with her children.
Posted by: Mrs. Phoenix | Aug 13, 2008 9:19:19 PM
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