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Elizabeth Edwards' 'Anguish' in Wake of Husband's Affair
August 13, 2008 3:13 PM
ABC News' Nitya Venkataraman Reports: Faced with the betrayal of her husband, former Democratic presidential candidate John Edwards, those close to Elizabeth Edwards say she experienced "excruciating anguish" in her decision to stand behind him through his 2008 campaign but that ultimately her terminal illness forced her to "move forward" for the sake of her family.
"No one should assume it was easy," says Hargrave McElroy, Elizabeth Edwards' best friend, in PEOPLE magazine's latest issue hitting newsstands Friday.
Once news of the affair went public, the PEOPLE magazine cover story says Elizabeth Edwards encouraged her husband to come clean.
On August 8, John Edwards taped an exclusive interview with Nightline admitting he'd repeatedly lied about an extramarital affair with Rielle Hunter, a film maker once employed by his presidential campaign, and denied involvement in paying her hush money or fathering her child. In the interview, Edwards described his wife as 'furious' upon learning of the affair.
PEOPLE reports Edwards' admission to his wife of the 2006 affair with Hunter as one that came in installments. "He told the truth slowly," said a source close to the couple who dated his confession as after the official launch of Edwards' 2008 presidential campaign in late December 2006. In March 2007, Mrs. Edwards told reporters she had learned her breast cancer had returned and was incurable.
"There was anguish -- excruciating anguish -- for her in dealing with this. She was angry and furious and everything, but at one point she had to make a choice: Do I kick him out or do we have a 30-year marriage that can be rebuilt?" McElroy said, in the PEOPLE magazine cover story that also featured an interview with Mrs. Edwards younger brother, Jay Anania.
Anania said living with incurable cancer and "the uncertainty of her own mortality" gave special circumstance to Mrs. Edwards decision to forgive her husband for the sake of her three children Cate, 26, Emma Claire, 10, and Jack, 8.
In the PEOPLE exclusive, McElroy says, "She couldn't say, 'Well, maybe we'll work through this for years, or maybe we should separate for two years. [The cancer] forced her to choose whether to move forward."
Hitting the campaign trail for her husband "was like returning to normalcy" McElroy said, though the challenge became more difficult than anticipated when tabloids began reporting the affair in 2007. McElroy says after that Mrs. Edwards did "strikingly less campaigning" than she did during the 2004 presidential election.
Her friends say Mrs. Edwards had hoped for some release following her husband's interview with Nightline. "Part of the burden for Elizabeth had been the lie," McElroy says in the PEOPLE magazine exclusive. "She anticipated the great relief the truth brings."
That release for Mrs. Edwards is yet to come. The blow to her husband's image has been significant. One Democratic strategist told PEOPLE "he's finished, it's too distasteful."
Friends tell PEOPLE magazine Edwards is working hard to regain his wife's trust, that they "are not living separate lives. They are together in that house, as before." They say his remorse "is real" and that "he is in pain." The magazine describes others in the Edwards' social circle as "outraged."
"The kids are, to a certain extent, oblivious," Elizabeth's brother tells PEOPLE magazine, "but children are very wise and know things." So far, the magazine says, the Edwardses haven't sat down with their younger children to discuss these events.
August 13, 2008 in Clinton, Hillary, Tancredo, Tom | Permalink | User Comments (96)
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GIVE JOHN EDWARDS A BREAK.
HE IS A GOOD MAN.
HE MADE A MISTAKE.
HE IS HUMAN JUST LIKE THE REST OF US.
LET HIM OR HER WHO IS WITHOUT SIN CAST THE FIRST STONE.
Posted by: CHARLES | Aug 13, 2008 9:49:39 PM
Get real people. Elizabeth Edwards aided and abetted the lie John Edwards tried to pawn on his party and supporters. Had he been nominated it would have been a disaster and Ms. Edwards is no idiot her medical condition n.w.s.
If the fire's too hot they shouldn't have gotten into the kitchen.
That's politics.
Posted by: Fred Durham | Aug 13, 2008 9:55:49 PM
hahahaaaa how does Hillary and McCain place this country first.
Posted by: ll | Aug 13, 2008 10:05:37 PM
My heart feels for Mrs. Edwards. What a strong woman and mother. Mrs. Edwards, you have all of our support. Do what you feel it best for you and your children.
Posted by: cookie | Aug 13, 2008 10:26:24 PM
I don't believe American voters condone this kind of thing from our politicians but we've learned to tolerate it. Why? Because if we didn't who would be left in Washington? That is the disappointment that everyone lives with everyday.
Posted by: rigatoni28 | Aug 13, 2008 10:41:32 PM
The McCain stuff has been discussed for 25 years. Nothing new.
Edwards...follow the money. If money from his campaign has been diverted as hush monet someone will go to jail.
This story is just beginning. Follow the money.
Posted by: Shawn | Aug 13, 2008 10:47:37 PM
He'll receive what he deserves - no doubt the universe will see to that. In the meantime, I hope he spends the rest of his life trying to make up for the betrayal to his wife.
Posted by: Susan | Aug 13, 2008 10:54:11 PM
John McCain and Edward affairs are not equal in my mind and I may be wrong. But, John McCain was a POW for 5 ½ years with fractures in his right leg and both arms. He received minimal care and was kept in wretched conditions based on US report. I cannot think about all the other daily things (tortures, solitary, sexual and brutality) that they did to him while in prison. Even Nelson Mandela cheated and left his wife after he was released from prison. Nelson Mandela was no longer the person his wife once knew. McCain admitted that being a prisoner of war had changed him and he was not the same man that his wife knew. I would like to see any of us coming out of that type of situation the same. How can he and other POW preserve their sanity? They should be respected and it is understandable that each POW can out a different person than their family once knew them to be. Our soldiers have a lot of trouble after coming home from war, yet alone POW for 51/2 years. Maybe Edwards was under too much pressure with his wife illness and needed outlets to handle it.
Posted by: cookie | Aug 13, 2008 11:02:05 PM
Edwards is a cad just like McCain and Bill Clinton.
Posted by: Liz | Aug 13, 2008 11:35:34 PM
Doesn't stress exacerbate or bring on cancer? John Edwards will be responsible for his wife's demise, whether it be sooner, or blessedly, later. He is beyond scum. Why do these guys always cheat with whores who cannot hold a candle to their accomplished, smart, intelligent and loyal wives? Hopefully, he'll suffer with this guilty forever.
I'm so disgusted. And to think my husband and I were going to vote for this jerk. He has done an amazing amount of damage to the party.
Posted by: Joan | Aug 14, 2008 12:03:32 AM
OK, this really isn't a Dem/Rep thing. It has been mentioned here that what McCain did is the same, but for the passage of time. I guess that's an anti-McCain stance. If you're pro-Clinton, as in both of them speaking in prime spots at the convention, why can't Edwards speak too? His crime and Bill's only differ in the passage of time. Of course they all differ in the circumstances and the personalities involved, and who might have caused and felt the most hurt, but it's all cheating and adultery in the final analysis.
Posted by: Tracy Lynn | Aug 14, 2008 12:48:33 AM
Don't feel sorry from him. There's plenty of ambulances left to chase.
Posted by: mikewolf9 | Aug 14, 2008 1:15:30 AM
Thank goodness this phoney's lies were exposed before he could become POTUS and be subjected to blackmail. What a man who would put the potential security of our entire nation at risk! Since he had already bold-faced lied repeatedly to the American people, who knows what deals might have been made to keep this from being exposed to the general public if he had been elected Pesident. Truley,trulely scary.
Posted by: givingthanks | Aug 14, 2008 2:03:18 AM
When you see how flawed our would-be leaders are, we need to remember that it is at our own peril to give more and more of our freedoms away to politicians and the people they bring with them into our government. Let's all wake up---let's continue to push for smaller and less powerful government and start taking our own destinies into our own hands. Just think how much more power we would have if it were not for high taxes and the the endless numbers of rules and regulations that government and its bureaucrats heap upon us. Shed the repression!!
Posted by: annewoodward | Aug 14, 2008 3:14:34 AM
WestCoast Messenger: And Obama was disrespectful to his grandmother how ? If you'd done your research, you would have seen that this anecdote about his grandmother's fear of the black man on the street was included in his book that was published ten years ago. And if you'd done your research you would have read that his grandmother read the manuscript beforehand and approved of what Obama said. I am so tired of readers not doing research.
As for Edwards, well, since he came down hard on Bill Clinton for the Lewinsky affair, he should expect others to seek the truth as to whether he fathered the child.
He has used the death of his son and his wife's cancer to gain sympathy and votes. He has presented himself as the paragon of morality. He and his wife are addicted to the spotlight and are a sham.
Watch for the Feds to indict him on the hush money.
Posted by: southamco | Aug 14, 2008 5:33:47 AM
why you against the man. Edward is a good man. He done a terrible mistake which may stick with for life but he human, he is a good man. This woman is opportunist, she is Jezebell. She knew what she was doing and why she did it.
MEN BE ON QUARD AGAINSST THESE KINDS OF WOMEN. She carless about the hurt she caused
Posted by: krist | Aug 14, 2008 6:30:58 AM
This family has seen enogh suffering in terms of destroyed public image. The best we can do for the cancer striken woman is to put this story behind us and pray for all of them
Posted by: Richard Komi | Aug 14, 2008 8:44:27 AM
If I were her I'd take a gun and shot the SOB! Why not? She is going to pass anyway and then the attention would be directed at his funeral!
This is not a good example for the children to see their father get by with this!!! How will they ever trust anyone?
Posted by: Red | Aug 14, 2008 9:24:17 AM
Look how Edwards made his money. Anyone surprised he sold his soul?
Posted by: geevill | Aug 14, 2008 9:43:53 AM
Edwards is a one-term Senator. See what happens wehen you don't know that much about someone. We know even less about Obama.
Posted by: geevill | Aug 14, 2008 9:48:48 AM
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